An Australian woman lost a whopping $780,000 and is currently living a homeless life. All these happened just because she was searching for love online! Annette Ford, a Perth-based woman in her late 50s, has lost all her life savings. At present, she is forced to couch-surf with complete strangers in Western Australia. She is struggling hard to secure accommodation in an affordable retirement village in Australia.
Annette’s life came crashing down when her marriage of 33 years ended badly 7 years ago. She was extremely shocked and in extreme grief when she saw her ex-husband move on quickly. In order to avoid loneliness, she decided to try her luck in dating. Soon, she joined a dating platform called ‘Plenty of Fish’ and got in touch with a guy named William.
They kept chatting for months and Annette was gradually falling for the person. Soon he asked for $5000 from Annette on the pretext of losing his wallet to a petty burglar in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. William said that he urgently needed to clear a hospital bill and cater to other important expenses as well. She admitted that she was ‘gullible and foolish.’ Out of love, Annette transferred the money.
But to her dismay, William kept asking for money. Annette was not suspicious initially and sent $300,000 to help William. Soon, she was all dry and penniless.
She somehow managed to survive this scam and reported this cyber fraud to the Australian Federal Police. But Annette claims that she got no support from the authorities.
Four years later, Annette became the victim of cyber fraud once again. A person named Nelson contacted her on Facebook. He mentioned that one of his friends worked in the FBI. Nelson asked for $2500, saying that the FBI guy required the amount to carry out a crucial investigation. Annette was initially suspicious of this request.
Then Nelson sent $2500 to her account and asked her to deposit the amount into a Bitcoin ATM. 57-year-old Annette was unaware that Nelson had already scammed her and that frequent transactions were taking place behind her back. It was too late before she realized that she had been robbed of $280,000.
In both cases, Annette did not meet the persons in real life. Without seeing them, she just transferred such big amounts which left her with no life savings at all. She has been working as an efficient dog groomer for so many years now. But because of this scam, she has lost all her money, mental peace, and confidence. Annette right now is too embarrassed to go back to work.
Annette feels devastated now and warns every woman against such cyberscammers. She emphasizes that women must not get carried away by the ‘right things,’ these scammers say. She wants women to stay grounded and remember how hard they have been working to bring bread and butter to the table.
Annette is not the sole victim of the love scam. Approximately 3200 romance scams were reported back in 2023 in Australia. These scams led to a humongous monetary loss worth 15.6 million USD.
Actions taken to prevent love scams!
This Valentine’s Day, the Australian Police joined hands with Philippine authorities so that potential victims don’t hurt their ‘hearts and bank accounts’ through online scams. They used the online dialogues of an online scammer who had been nabbed by the Philippine authorities to spread awareness. These real-life dialogues actually throw light on how convincing scammers can actually sound while honey-trapping innocent love seekers.
Back in October 2024, the Philippine authorities managed to raid the hideouts of a group of cyber scammers in Manila. Around 250 Chinese suspected members had been arrested, and their devices had been seized too. The same group had been trying to victimize as many as 5000 people in Australia.
The scammers used to target unsuspecting, full-time employed males. They used romantic dialogues to keep these victims glued to the screen. Later, they encourage the victims to invest their hard-earned money in cryptocurrency. The ultimate goal was to transfer their hard-earned money to the syndicate’s bank account.
As per a report, the amount of money lost in such love-baiting scams (pig butchering) saw a sharp spike of 40% in 2024. The percentage of people who are falling prey to such romance scams has also increased by 210% in 2024. Most of these scammers are operating in the Southeast Asia region. The staffers are mostly those who have been held captive and forced to carry out such love scams.
Cybersecurity experts and relevant authorities emphasize the importance of phishing protection and have strongly advised against engaging in any monetary transactions on dating sites. They warn users to be cautious and avoid responding to requests for wire transfers, prepaid gift cards, or cryptocurrency investments from individuals they do not know personally, as these are common tactics used by scammers.